Magkapareho lang ba daw yung nagsawa at napagod (sa relasyon)?
Kung ako ang tatanungin magkaiba ito, ibibigay ko ang opinyon ko dito. Kapag ang tao nagsawa, kahit anong effort ang gawin mo eh wala ng kwenta sa kanya ito. Di tulad ng napagod eh pwedeng magpahinga sandali at tska magmahal ulit.
Yung mga taong nagsasawa eh depende, maaring sa tagal ng ng relasyon nila, nagiging paulit ulit na lang ang nangyayari sa kanilang dalawa. Madalas na nangyayari sa relasyon ng matagal na magkasintahan na parehong pumapasok pa ay
- Mag tetext ng goodmorning
- Mag tetext ng Kain na.
- Magsasabi ng I love you.
- Teka lang may gagawin lang ako/ Pasok na ako sa school.
- Kain ka na tanghalian.
- Kelan ulit tayo magkikita?
- Magsasabi ng I love you.
- Papasok sa eskwelahan
- Uuwi sa eskwelahan.
- Sasabihan ng pagod.
- Mag-uusap, wala ng mapagusapan dahil napagusapan na sa mga nakaraang araw. Paano pa kung hindi nagkita?
- Mag goodnight.
- Kinabukasan eh halos ganun ulit.
Minsan ang tao eh nagsasawa kapag paulit ulit yung nangyayari, parang formality na lang, Date tayo, Usap tayo, I love you dito, I love you too doon.
Ang taong napagod eh bigyan mo lang ng oras mag-isip eh handa na ulit magmahal ito, maaring mapatawad ka, pagbigyan ka pa ng isang pagkakataon o kaya naman eh tuluyang mapagod at sa ibang balikat na siya magpahinga. Depende na naman sa tao yan lahat eh.
Kung tutuusin parehas lang yan, parehas lang kasi kakalabasan niyan. Iniwan ka rin naman eh, yun nga lang nagkaiba sa kung may pag-asang bumalik o hindi.
" Don’t worry. He’ll miss you. You’re the best he could get and he blew it. Don’t let him make you think for one second that it was your fault. It’s not. He screwed up, and you did absolutley nothing wrong. You gave him your heart and you trusted him to keep it and protect it, but he couldn’t. And honestly he’s not mature enough. He’s not smart enough. If he was smart, he would have cared for you with every fiber of his being and been with you in every spare second he could, but he didn’t and now he’s gone. But don’t you cry, Sweetie.Don’t call him telling him you miss him. Don’t IM him, don’t message him, don’t comment him, don’t talk to him in the hallways, just pretend like you don’t care, because, well, you don’t. And don’t be surprised when he comes crawling back saying he made a mistake, and if you want to, go with him again, but make him work for you. Don’t be his doormat. Don’t let him the first time he rings the bell, make him come back every day until you trust him enough. If he doesn’t come back after a couple of tries, just let him go, but if he comes back every day, then he’s worth it, trust me. He’s worth it. "
— (via
eletheowl).
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